She found out about the affair cause her mother told her maybe out of fear that I was going to tell, didn't really plan on it. Our youngest daughter who is 16 and the only one who still lives at home has taken it the hardest, she doesn't want anything to do with her mother at the moment and their contact is limited.
Has sent me apology letters and love notes which I just don't think I can read anymore. She begged and pleaded for counseling but I told her I want to be separated before I consider anything, I've been thinking divorce this whole time and just want this whole thing over with. All she has confessed to is kissing but her word is obviously not worth shit. The sexting and flirting just ripped my heart out. He just seemed to charm my wife, she complained to him about the lack of attention and affection I showed her, with him telling her everything she wanted to hear. I held it together even though I was absolutely heartbroken, the love of the life and the mother of my children talking and probably fucking some jackass who is also married, I also notified his wife which she thanked me for and just seemed utterly broken hopefully that woman leaves the douche. Told her I knew everything, her crying saying nothing happened and she doesn't want to be without me. I chose to confront her in our room and did not expect to have that big of an outburst as our 16 year old daughter heard her. When confronted I told her that she will be leaving the home so we can start on divorce proceedings, only to be met with water works and screaming. The affair was apparently only emotional with "a few kisses" but I don't buy that bullshit. Who I may add is not very attractive at all and is packing the pounds and is about 10 years older than us. What I found was flirtatious and sexting messages between her and a dude who works at her firm. I did notice she spent more time "texting her girlfriends" and being more guarded with her phone, I then decided to snoop around. My wife was not really acting different, just her normal happy self. So D-Day was a few months ago, in this state you need to be living separately before divorce proceedings can begin. She always seemed extremely happy with me and me with her. We've never had issues in our marriage with infidelity, abuse, financial problems or lack of sex. I'm an entrepreneur and my wife is a paralegal if that matters, I bring in a good amount more than she does.
Were now both 43 and have been married for 20 years. I have been with my soon to be ex wife since we were 19, we married at 23 and had three great kids and many memories that I will remember regardless of what is happening.
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